Keeping you marriage alive can be a very hard thing to accomplish. It can be a very sad thing to watch a once happy union fall apart. Sometimes, even when both partners want it to work, they helplessly watch it fall apart. Usually, armed with a little information it is possible to save your marriage.

Know What You Are Really Feeling

Before you can fix the way that you feel you must understand why you feel that way. Arguments lead to anger and hard feelings, but what is the real reason for the arguments. If you are truthful with yourself and your spouse does the same, you will probably discover that although on the surface the fights are about many things, the real reasons are all the same. Perhaps one spouse feels ignored or that their needs are not being met. Maybe one spouse is too controlling and the other feels like their opinion doesn’t matter. Whatever the truth is, if you can discover these reasons then you can start to fix the real problems.

Be Honest

Nothing else you try will make a difference if you and your spouse are not willing to be truthful. You must be honest not only with your partner but also with yourself. Lying about what you truly feel or want will only lead to you feeling like what you need is not important. The truth may not be what your spouse wants to hear, but if you try to protect their feelings by lying, the end result will be your feelings getting hurt.

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We have all had it happen…

You are attracted to a woman.

But there’s a problem…

She isn’t physically attracted to you.

Can you do anything about it?

Many experts will tell you that you need to be realistic about the cards you’ve been dealt – if a woman doesn’t find you sexy, there’s nothing you can do about it.

Refrain from doing this. You’re stifling your chances with her.

Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her.

Today I’m going to teach you one of them. It comes from the dating coach Swinggcat and is called a “Tension Loop”

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.

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Prioritise- Take a close look at your priorities. If your very important other-half falls second or third on your list of priorities your marriage will encounter problems sooner rather than later. Work and children may take-up a lot of your time and attention, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as your partner feels loved and still on top of your priority list it will be an absolute song for you to follow the rules and tips on how to save marriage.

Make time- For your marriage to sail smoothly on stormy waters it is imperative that spouse-alone time is scheduled. There is absolutely nothing wrong with making an appointment with your spouse to do things together that you love and enjoy. Chat feely and openly. However depressing, sad, confrontational and fight provoking subjects should be avoided.

Look after yourself- Marriage doesn’t have to mean wearing a sack and smelling like old socks. If you feel and look good, your spouse will feel proud and much more attracted to you. Nothing is as great as rekindling those funny, familiar, forgotten feelings you had when you first met. Loose a little weight and eat healthily. Buy his or her favourite aftershave or perfume and apply generously. Put on that sexy outfit and remember the clean underwear or even no underwear. Mmm, makes you think hey?

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