We have all had it happen…

You are attracted to a woman.

But there’s a problem…

She isn’t physically attracted to you.

Can you do anything about it?

Many experts will tell you that you need to be realistic about the cards you’ve been dealt – if a woman doesn’t find you sexy, there’s nothing you can do about it.

Refrain from doing this. You’re stifling your chances with her.

Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her.

Today I’m going to teach you one of them. It comes from the dating coach Swinggcat and is called a “Tension Loop”

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.

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Tags: body language, confidence, dating, dating advice, flirting, marriage, relationships, seduction, self help, self improvement, shyness, social anxiety

Have you ever seen a girl you wanted to meet but your tongue was in a knot?

Not to worry.

Every man on the planet has experienced this.

And it plains sucks.

On top of that, lots of women close up when they sense a male stranger is attracted to them.

In a second you’re gonna learn a very powerful technique that will prevent you from ever being at a loss for words again with a woman you’d like to approach.

It’s called the “Opinion Opener.”

Before letting a woman know she’s someone you’d like to meet, you’re gonna get her opinion on something.

More often than not, women will enthusiastically answer your question. Moreover, they won’t have clue that you’re hitting on them.

This will give you time to figure them out before making a move.

But you don’t want to ask them just any old question.

Your questions need to be emotionally relevant to them – things like love triangles between celebrities, relationships… and so on.

One of my favorite opinion openers I got from the legendary seducer Swinggcat.

Here it is:

You: Ladies! I’ve got a question for you.

Girls: Go ahead.

You: My neighbor just got a baby boy pug dog and baby girl wiener dog. She wants to name them after an ’80s or ’90s pop duet or couple.

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Tags: body language, dating, dating advice, flirting, marriage, relationships, seduction, self help, self improvement, shyness, social anxiety

The eyes are one of the most important tools for women when they flirt. It’s the principal means of nonverbal communication. Before a woman and a man have even formally met, the eyes help establish contact and interest. Good, strong eye contact can influence whether a man makes a move. Weak eye contact may drive him away or cause him to lose interest.

A man will subconsciously notice eye contact because he understands or believes it to be a true indicator of a woman’s intent. He thinks that a woman can say nice things but not mean it, whereas her eyes always betrays her real thoughts. Whether or not this is true in reality, a woman can at least use it to her advantage.

Women who are not attracted to a man can show their lack of interest by turning away their gaze. Of course, the problem is what happens if they look away despite their interest, perhaps because of nervousness. They may end up causing the man to back off because it seems like a sign of a lack of interest. Women should be wary about how they direct their gaze, especially while talking to the man. When attracted, she should make sure her gaze falls on him. When not attracted she should let her gaze start veering off.

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Tags: Attraction, dating, flirting, men, relationships, seduction, self improvement, social, society, women