Whether you know it or not, there’s an obstacle you must get past to be successful with women in bars and nightclubs.
It’s rare to see attractive girls at bars by themselves. Usually, they come with friends in tow.
You may successfully approach the woman, but if you don’t know how to deal with her friends, they’ll snatch her away from you and whisk her off into the dark night, never to be seen again.
Here’s a painless way to get inside her social circle…
Ask her group of friends for their opinion on something.
If you do this right, you’ll engage the whole group in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here’s a simple example that comes from Neil Strauss
Say to the group, “Guys… I want a quick opinion on something.” When you get their attention say, “Who do you think lies more – men or women?”
Every one will put their two cents in.
Then ask, “Do you think men or women are more likely to cheat on their partners?”
Her male friend will averse, “Women.” Her girlfriends will disagree and say, “Men.”
This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?
You become the ringleader amongst her friends. So you have the power to take the conversation with them in any direction you choose.
You’ve infiltrated her social circle. If you hit on the girl, her friend will no longer care.
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