When God created Adam and Eve, he created them each unique and special in their own way. However, the differences that they exist between man and woman have been known to cause a few arguments. Men and women think differently, they behave differently, they have different roles, and they feel differently about everything. Because of these differences, there are bound to be arguments and times when the man is going to upset his woman. Therefore he is going to need some help in getting himself out of the dog house. The following list of gestures was compiled for just that!

1. Send Her a Floral Arrangement. Flowers are a great place to begin. Why? Well because they are beautiful and special and area luxury purchase. But the most important thing about flowers is that they be delivered to her someplace where lots of people she knows are going to see. Work is the best place to do this. Have an arrangement sent to her job with a special note from you apologizing, and see how far that takes you.

2. Buy Her Jewelry. Jewelry is definitely a favorite with women. No matter what kind of jewelry piece you decide to buy her, the most important thing is that it’s real. If you can’t afford real at the moment, then don’t even bother with buying her jewelry at this point. Remember, jewelry is not going to be the solution to your problems; it is just a way to spark an open dialogue about the real issues going on in your relationship.

3. Cater to Her For A Day. Women spend a lot of time catering to the men in their lives so spend a day catering to your lady. Don’t pay for her to go to the spa. Instead, create a spa atmosphere for her right at home, and spend an entire day being her personal masseuse, manicurist, pedicurist, facial specialist, and more. Cook a special meal for her, light candles in the bathroom and draw a nice bath. Let her know that her wish is your command and that you will be more than happy to do anything she asks you to.

4. Surprise Her With A Trip. Women love surprises and this is one she is sure to never forget. Plan a weekend getaway for you and your honey. Make sure that you have her clear a weekend in advance to make sure that she has nothing else to do. Get her mother, sister or best friend to pack her bags for her and pick her up after work on a Friday afternoon. Drive to the airport and she will be so surprised. But don’t tell her where you’re going until she sees it for herself at the terminal gate. She will not only be more open and receptive to what you have to say, but she will be very happy too.

5. Give her something she’s always wanted. Only you can know what your woman has always wanted. There is usually something that she talks about wanting all the time, but never gets or does for herself. Do this for her, whatever it is. As with any of these gift ideas, don’t rely on them to solve your problems. You are still going to have to deal with them and resolve them through communication and compromise.

Sheila Dollarsby and her husband do their fair share of disagreeing. When he is really sorry though he will usually order an arrangement of flowers from 1800 Flowers. He does not use the flowers from 1800 Flowers as a way to solve problems, but simply as a way to apologize and open the door to healthy communication and conflict resolution.

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