My friends, a question for you…

You have heard the saying about “Nice Guys” and finishing last, right?

Well, I’m here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think.

Being a “Nice Guy” with women doesn’t work, not because you get too caught up in what a girl wants and get stuck as a friend, but because Nice Guys are typically very, very…

SELFISH!

That’s right. When you’re a “Nice Guy,” you’re not really being nice, you’re being EMOTIONALLY GREEDY.

Let me explain…

An enormous problem for a lot of guys, one that will almost always lead to difficulty with women, is the “Nice Guy factor”.

Countless men rely on others to determine their self worth, due to having a weak identity and very little self esteem.

These guys are at the mercy of everyone else in their lives, so they try their best to please the people around them, hoping they’ll continue to think highly of them, so they can feel good about themselves. That’s not so bad, right? It feels good when others approve of you, doesn’t it?

Most people look at this behavior and would instantly categorize these poor men in the “Nice Guys” column. After all, they’re the ones who don’t like conflict. They’re the ones who don’t want to make waves. They’re the ones who want everyone to be happy.

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There will come a time in a person’s life when they lose someone they love due to a break down in their relationship. Certainly these break ups can be hard on those involved, but it will also depend on what the situation is. Relationships are just like children, in that in order for them to grow they need to be nurtured. So if you want your partner to remain then you need to provide them with the love and attention that they seek.

Sometimes when a relationship comes to an end then one or both people involved in it may find themselves wanting the other person back. Yet is best in most cases if you take a step back from the situation in which you find yourself and just let things be for the moment. In fact you may find that agreeing to this break up is often the best thing and it provides you with the chance to use a little reverse psychology to help you with getting your lover back into your life. So what you basically need to do is pretend you see the breakup as something positive which offers you the chance to move on with your life.

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