If you are getting divorced in Orange County, California you’ll need to prepare relevant information for your first meeting with your attorney. Your Attorney will likely have you fill out a form and go over it with you. This article will give you an idea of the sorts of documentation and information that you should bring to your first consultation. Also included below is a link to a Judicial Council Form provided by the Superior Court of Orange County that many attorneys use for just this purpose.

The type of information you’ll need to bring includes but isn’t necessarily limited to:

1. Personal: All social security numbers, and dates of: (1) birth, (2) marriage, and (3) separation;

2. Property: Residence- lease or own (lease amount). If owner: value of home; mortgage payment, source of purchase funds, source of mortgage payments. Other Real Property. Life Insurance. Furniture

3. obligations: debts – make sure you include the date incurred, the purpose, the due date, and the terms of repayment.

4. Income: Your employer, spouse’s employer, occupation, monthly income, withholdings, if not working an explanation, number of exemptions.

5. Liquid assets: Cash, stocks, bonds, checking accounts, life insurance.

6. Monthly expenses: there is still laundry list of information contained in this section which you can access at the link below. Make sure you visit this and view the list as it contains many items.

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Women are complex, but here are the keys to better understand what they need and want from you. Having this knowledge will put you above any other guy.

1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed

Have you ever gone out with a woman and told her all sorts of impressive things about yourself only to discover she just wants to be friends? As modern men, especially Americans, we are led to believe that women have a checklist and we need to meet their criteria. Truth is that a woman wants more than anything else to feel emotion. The male mind processes language more in terms of facts and outcomes where the female mind responds much more to emotion and empathy. The key is to create a way for her to feel something. For example, draw her into your world by sharing stories in a way that she can associate into; she can experience the story as you tell it.

2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable

A woman will stay clear from any awkward situation. The comfort you have yourself has absolute effect on her own. You must have comfort with her if you wish to win her over mentally, emotionally, and physically. Keep the conversation light at first and avoid topics of huge plans for the future as they may make her uncomfortable.

3. Don’t Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesn’t Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional

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