Helping Lonely Hearts via e-Mail
Written by Chaszey Sandhriel on August 27th, 2008There are millions of people looking for their true love on the Internet. The challenge is that many feel intensely frustrated with the process. These love sick people are meeting all kinds of wrong people, or even worse, they’re not meeting anyone at all. That’s why many of them are turning to Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.
“The number one reason why people are not getting results or at least the results they expected, is because they are not putting their most authentic Self into their profile. They withhold themselves or worse, lie, and then they wonder why their contradictory profile is giving them wishy-washy results.” Chaszey says. “Every successful results-driven online profile is packed with honesty, strength and the clear picture of who you are and who you truly want as a life partner.”
In order to create a successful profile, start with these three tips:
1. The right screen name Most people tend to forget that screen names communicate novels. Screen names like “ServeMeRight,” “Looking2Please69,” “WorshipGoddess” may communicate things to people that you had not intended. Try not to communicate too much with your screen name and definitely don’t leave room for guess work when choosing your screen name.
2. The right photos “It never amazes to see the type of pictures people put on the Internet. Little do they realize that these pictures are leaving a first impression,” says Chaszey. By all means do not put pictures up in which you wear glasses and a hat displaying your favorite football team, all while having two dead fish hanging from your arms. Reserve these proud photos for your poker night out with your buddies. Pictures that work show your eyes and show your face clearly; and you show a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (no matter what you look like).
3. Your profile Be concise, authentic and open when describing yourself. I have talked to many men who told me that once they went out on a first date, they discovered that the profile of the woman they went out with was actually written by a girlfriend, who meant well, I’m sure. However, it left these men wondering who they really were on a date with and they lost faith and trust. I cannot stress how important it is for you to get clear about who you are and for you to accurately state who you are and what makes you tick in your profile. You are not trying out for an essay contest, you are communicating to the world that you are ready to find your true love and you are calling him or her to you with your profile. This is the time to be downright honest with yourself and the world so that you have a chance to attract a person who knows who you are from the beginning.
4. Clearly describe the partner you want to attract Everyone wants a “good woman” or a “great guy” but this doesn’t mean that your profile needs to sound like you’re looking for a Stepford wife or Prince Charming. Too many adjectives can result in people tuning out about what you’re really looking for. Perhaps you may want to try to describe how this person makes you feel or what you as a couple would do together. Write this part as if you’re talking to her or him directly.
Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online Daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.
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